“Also, Alwyn is the one who took my kids during Alessi’s Birthday naman to my Papa Jigo’s house to celebrate because I can’t be there for work. He is allowed to be with my children any time he wants and I simply requested (hindi demand) that he do not post about these things on social media to lessen the “noise” and opinions of chismosas like you to which he respectfully agreed to.
Kung magkabalikan man kami ni Alwyn, manggagaling sa bibig ko hindi manggagaling sa bibig ng kaibigan mo, o sa bibig ng kahit na sino na wala naman alam tungkol sa personal na buhay ko.
I hope people won’t look at it as a surprise that Alwyn and I are together in one place with our children especially when it wasn’t an intimate gathering with just the four of us there since we are excerting all efforts to make the situation less painful for my children than it already is.
Alwyn joining our trip to Tanay is not the first and definitely not the last since his presence is welcome in my children’s life forever. Magka pamilya man na iba si Alwyn in the future, ano man ang mangyari, hindi ko ipagdadamot ang mga anak ko sa Tatay Alwyn nila. I know that this statement might be difficult to understand para sa mga taong hindi pa pamilyado but this is the reality I now face.
While Alwyn is doing his best to restore our family. I need time to heal. I need to keep my relationship to God first and foremost a top priority.
I remember saying to those who asked for pictures: “Ma’am sana po wag na upload kung pwede lang po mainit na kasi kami sa social media.” Nagpapaliwanag pa ko. Nakakapagod tapos ganito. Ako na nahiyang tumanggi magpa picture, ako pa pagmumukhaing sinungaling. SA TRUE LANG TAYO, yung ASSUMING ka at MALISYOSA ka. Mas marunong ka pa dun sa taong nahiwalay sa asawa.
I hope people would understand that the next time I am with my children and their father is around, I would answer, “sorry po, I am not at work, hindi po ako comfortable that we take pictures.””
By the way, my children’s father is also with us during Mori’s Birthday. Ngayon mo lang nalaman diba? May friend ka sa area? Wala diba, kasi di naman invited “friend” mo sa bahay ng Papa Jigo ko. Di rin ako nag upload ng picture with my children’s father kahit andun siya. Kasi bakit? Kailangan ba? Para saan? Para SAYO? Para updated ka ganon? So obligasyon ko na pag kasama ko tatay ng mga anak ko papaliwanag ako sa mga tao? Adjust na ako para sa mga anak ko tapos adjust din ako para sayo ganon? Special ka.”
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